Many women are surprised to learn that the police receive extensive training in handling disputes between spouses. You need to call the police if your soon husband threatens you, yells at you, tries to intimidate you, or attacks you.
This article concerns a husband who admitted to killing his wife during a contentious divorce.
For you, your husband should not be showing up at your home unannounced at odd hours if you live apart. This is not normal behavior. And, divorces cause many husbands to lose grip with reality.
Let this tragedy be a lesson to you. Stay Safe!