1. 1. Nothing is his fault. The marriage is ending but he played no role is causing the end. Your children are upset with your husband but it is not his fault. Nothing is his fault.
2. 2. Everything is YOUR fault! The marriage ending is YOUR fault. It is YOUR fault the children are upset with him. It is even your fault that coronavirus has made its way to the United States. Everything is YOUR fault.
3. 3. He is a good guy. He is a good guy because, in his own mind, nothing is his fault and you are the bad person.
Now, I am not a psychiatrist. But, I see patterns. And, the above 3 traits are what I see in every divorce/custody/support case I handle. As a result, women seek me out when looking for an attorney familiar with narcissistic husbands.
However, I will let you in on a secret. Your husband will not bully me because he is a coward. I have often been told I am a physically imposing man, difficult and tough. Yet, I take issue with those characterizations. I believe I am a kind person who does do not allow myself or my clients to be taken advantage of. I do not think that makes me mean or difficult but a good lawyer.
In conclusion, I deal with these narcissistic husbands every day. Call our office if you’d like to schedule a consultation to discuss your narcissistic husband and are thinking of divorce, are currently divorcing and/or have to deal with a narcissist for support or custody issues.
Contact our office at 415-635-0411.